I bought this book because I was interested in being supportive but also really curious about what Ivonnah had to say because I really admire her willingness to be vulnerable and speak from the heart. Throughout the years, ever since I was a young girl growing up in New Haven, I’ve always known her to be very uplifting and emotionally supportive. And that’s become even more true since we’ve kept in touch more often due to the untimely passing of someone that we both loved so dearly, Sharnita Solomon. In general, I was always so enamored by the models in my environment and I often tagged along after my cousin Sharnita and her friends. I bought the book last week received it in the mail yesterday and read it cover to cover today. It was well worth the investment. The writing is geared mostly toward Christian woman who are not yet married but I found that it resonated with me in many ways even as a woman who has been married for several years now. In it She discusses things that stood out to me such as “fruits of the spirit” (patience, kindness, being gentle, and loving), accountability partners otherwise known as your “ram in the bush”, fervently pursuing your life’s purpose, being in edifying environments, and learning to discuss failed practice drills and not just your highlight reel in life”. She suggests that authenticity is attractive and says that it is difficult to share life advice from a place you have never been. Further that it is hard for people to believe that change is possible from a person who has been perfect or holy their entire lives. She encourages women to own who they are in Christ forgiving their own misteps, while holding themselves to a high standard of knowing and loving your self worth. I highly recommend this book for any woman who is interested in self reflection or being an uplifting force for another young woman, a mother, cousin, friend, or any role that would put you in a position to be followed by example. Otherwise perhaps you might purchase and donate this book to a young lady in your life! Well Done Vonnie! Thank you for your gifts and example of excellence. You should be very proud. ❤️💪🏽 go to www.Ivonnah.com now! 👑